hey ele, i need your advice-cum-help! my boyfriend threatens to die when i told him i want a breakup. what should i do w/o hurting him and myself? =(

ps/ i like your really really cute owls!!!

Hey, I think you should talk things out with him.. What are the problems you have with him? Do you really not want to stay with him? See if there’s anything you both can do to fix this relationship to make it work. I think saying that he wants to die may seem extreme to most, but perhaps that’s the extent of where his emotional pain takes him. I hope you make the right decision to talk things out with him, and hopefully things work out for the both of you without anyone getting hurt.

And thank you about the owls :)